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Wendy Scott's avatar

Great post and great work influencing young women.

Double standards everywhere need to be challenged.

50 & Unafraid's avatar

Love this . I’m a newbie, and only have one post of my own. I’ve subscribed to you . I’m looking forward to reading more from you :)

Ese Walter's avatar

I love your pub name. Subscribed to read more from you too….

Michele Clapsaddle's avatar

Enjoy this topic, thank you. I write about midlife through the lens of Greek myth and I talk a lot about what is expected of women versus what they actually want and who they want to be.

The Quiet Thread's avatar

A great post. Women have been less understood.. just too add to your little, a man who exerts power is labelled as confident and when woman does it, she''s called bossy.

Ask Manjot's avatar

Such a great article! Especially the part about why women cry. As a therapist, I hear women express so much frustration around their tears and this is a great reminder that tears are often the only outlet we are taught to have.

Angela B. Ryan's avatar

As a woman who is consistently and reliably labeled “too much,” I approve this message.

Lemon Brain's avatar

Same!

And I’m beginning to see that my “too much” is powerful and people find that intimidating. I’ve had my magic suppressed too long.

Angela B. Ryan's avatar

2026 is the year of Lemon Brain and Ang’s magic. Watch out, world!! … Not because it’ll be scary or bad, but bc it’s going to be SpOokTaCuLaR! 🍋✨

The Sonic Shift's avatar

Hello, I talk about the Audio Diet we don’t pay attention to and how it can shape our lives. Take a look:-) https://thesonicshift.substack.com/

Koya Nkrumah's avatar

Love it! ❤️

Unchasing Corporate's avatar

Really great read, love your work that you are doing influencing young women

Amy Lynne - Reiki Master's avatar

I love that you are raising awareness about this! Learning how to express my anger safely has been one of the more healing things I’ve done.

✩⁺₊✩☽⋆ 𝖍𝖆𝖟𝖊𝖆𝖗𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖆 ⋆☾✩⁺₊✩'s avatar

I can only hope that the young women of today see the moves we're making and use that to make their voices heard. To know they're NOT too much, too dramatic or being hysterical. It's insane women are being told this yet WE are the only ones who can birth a person. The irony.

The Third Shift's avatar

I couldn’t love this more. I can think of a lot of difficult conversations in early adulthood where I found myself involuntarily crying, and then saying “I’m not sad“ but I rarely had the words to describe what I *was* feeling.

I’m thankful that has changed in the last decade, and that social-emotional learning has become central to early elementary education.

As a complete aside, I just read a fun page-turner that connects witches and suffragettes called *The Once and Future Witches* by @Alix E Harrow. It was somehow both a New York Times bestseller and totally flew under the radar. I recommend it for anybody looking for a book to relax with on Christmas afternoon.

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I'm Just A Woman's avatar

We’ve never been “too much” ladies, they’ve just not been enough💁🏻‍♀️✨

Calm Perspective's avatar

Women don't have to fit society's mould and so many of them are choosing not too anymore. None of it means you “failed” or are “behind”. I'm exploring these themes in my series about a woman finding herself at 40. I just dropped Chapter 3, looking for my community ❤️

https://open.substack.com/pub/calmperspective/p/chapter-3-the-first-ripple?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=6wky17