A great post. Women have been less understood.. just too add to your little, a man who exerts power is labelled as confident and when woman does it, she''s called bossy.
Such a great article! Especially the part about why women cry. As a therapist, I hear women express so much frustration around their tears and this is a great reminder that tears are often the only outlet we are taught to have.
Enjoy this topic, thank you. I write about midlife through the lens of Greek myth and I talk a lot about what is expected of women versus what they actually want and who they want to be.
I can only hope that the young women of today see the moves we're making and use that to make their voices heard. To know they're NOT too much, too dramatic or being hysterical. It's insane women are being told this yet WE are the only ones who can birth a person. The irony.
I couldn’t love this more. I can think of a lot of difficult conversations in early adulthood where I found myself involuntarily crying, and then saying “I’m not sad“ but I rarely had the words to describe what I *was* feeling.
I’m thankful that has changed in the last decade, and that social-emotional learning has become central to early elementary education.
As a complete aside, I just read a fun page-turner that connects witches and suffragettes called *The Once and Future Witches* by @Alix E Harrow. It was somehow both a New York Times bestseller and totally flew under the radar. I recommend it for anybody looking for a book to relax with on Christmas afternoon.
Women don't have to fit society's mould and so many of them are choosing not too anymore. None of it means you “failed” or are “behind”. I'm exploring these themes in my series about a woman finding herself at 40. I just dropped Chapter 3, looking for my community ❤️
It’s exhausting, performing calm while your body is screaming, while work expects you to be pleasant and professional, while everyone around you gets to express frustration without being labelled difficult or emotional. And the kicker is that even the tears get misread as fragility, when they’re really just fury with nowhere else to go.
What you’re doing here with the conversation starters and classroom resources matters. Giving young people the language to name what they’re feeling before they learn to suppress it; that’s the kind of work that actually shifts things.
As a mother of a fierce and smart daughter, I really appreciate these resources. As a parent, I’m terrified of perpetuating gender biases, even if I’m extremely aware of them. But she doesn’t evolve in a closed environment, we need to fight the limiting beliefs the outside world is putting on her.
Wenches, are them witches, or are it reformed witches, are she/he worse than witches?
Seriously the word wench has always to me sounded more palatable, is it a witch from Wales, hence the word wench, welsh and witch combined?
Come now leader, guide me to a straight and arrow path of what exactly a wench is?
Do wenches resent being called witches, do they wear the same garments, this is not a be careful what you wish for request, this is an honest question,
Wench to witch is hamburger to hotdog, or is it more so wench to witch is hamburger/turkeyburger?
Great post and great work influencing young women.
Double standards everywhere need to be challenged.
Love this . I’m a newbie, and only have one post of my own. I’ve subscribed to you . I’m looking forward to reading more from you :)
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A great post. Women have been less understood.. just too add to your little, a man who exerts power is labelled as confident and when woman does it, she''s called bossy.
Such a great article! Especially the part about why women cry. As a therapist, I hear women express so much frustration around their tears and this is a great reminder that tears are often the only outlet we are taught to have.
Enjoy this topic, thank you. I write about midlife through the lens of Greek myth and I talk a lot about what is expected of women versus what they actually want and who they want to be.
I love that you are raising awareness about this! Learning how to express my anger safely has been one of the more healing things I’ve done.
I can only hope that the young women of today see the moves we're making and use that to make their voices heard. To know they're NOT too much, too dramatic or being hysterical. It's insane women are being told this yet WE are the only ones who can birth a person. The irony.
I couldn’t love this more. I can think of a lot of difficult conversations in early adulthood where I found myself involuntarily crying, and then saying “I’m not sad“ but I rarely had the words to describe what I *was* feeling.
I’m thankful that has changed in the last decade, and that social-emotional learning has become central to early elementary education.
As a complete aside, I just read a fun page-turner that connects witches and suffragettes called *The Once and Future Witches* by @Alix E Harrow. It was somehow both a New York Times bestseller and totally flew under the radar. I recommend it for anybody looking for a book to relax with on Christmas afternoon.
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Women don't have to fit society's mould and so many of them are choosing not too anymore. None of it means you “failed” or are “behind”. I'm exploring these themes in my series about a woman finding herself at 40. I just dropped Chapter 3, looking for my community ❤️
https://open.substack.com/pub/calmperspective/p/chapter-3-the-first-ripple?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=6wky17
It’s exhausting, performing calm while your body is screaming, while work expects you to be pleasant and professional, while everyone around you gets to express frustration without being labelled difficult or emotional. And the kicker is that even the tears get misread as fragility, when they’re really just fury with nowhere else to go.
What you’re doing here with the conversation starters and classroom resources matters. Giving young people the language to name what they’re feeling before they learn to suppress it; that’s the kind of work that actually shifts things.
This is great post!
As a mother of a fierce and smart daughter, I really appreciate these resources. As a parent, I’m terrified of perpetuating gender biases, even if I’m extremely aware of them. But she doesn’t evolve in a closed environment, we need to fight the limiting beliefs the outside world is putting on her.
Can you help me with this question they,
Wenches, are them witches, or are it reformed witches, are she/he worse than witches?
Seriously the word wench has always to me sounded more palatable, is it a witch from Wales, hence the word wench, welsh and witch combined?
Come now leader, guide me to a straight and arrow path of what exactly a wench is?
Do wenches resent being called witches, do they wear the same garments, this is not a be careful what you wish for request, this is an honest question,
Wench to witch is hamburger to hotdog, or is it more so wench to witch is hamburger/turkeyburger?
These word have totally different meanings, and I think you must know that…
Witch comes from the Old English word “wicce,” meaning “wise woman.”
Wench has an altogether different flavour 🙈
This only makes me more empowered to claim I am a witch
💋 #proudwitchywoman