The rise of the self centred woman
Plus: Postpartum statues 🤰Boys and AI 🤖 Running topless 👟
When British Vogue posed the question, “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?”, it captured a growing shift in how women define themselves. Caroline Millington explores how the idea of “decentring men” has evolved into empowerment, arguing that being confidently self-centred means valuing independence and self-love without losing compassion or connection.
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Welcome back to Take The Lead, the fortnightly newsletter from The Female Lead.
Here’s your roundup of our most-read and most-subscribed-to articles of the last month.
A one-of-a-kind statue celebrating post-partum women was unveiled in London and the internet erupted — not with praise, but with outrage. We explored the story behind Mother Vérité, the women who created her, and what the fierce reaction reveals about how we still see women’s bodies in public.
A third of boys think women’s rights are unimportant — and many are turning to AI for connection. Our latest piece explores what’s driving this shift and how we can help the next generation grow into allies, not adversaries.
Louise Butcher, a cancer survivor and breast cancer advocate shared how embracing her topless runs helped her reclaim her body, her identity, and her life.
And, TV presenter and activist Ashley James reflects on the lessons she’s learned through her twenties and thirties, sharing seven powerful truths about confidence, sisterhood, and self-worth to help the next generation of girls grow up freer and more fearless.
We also shared the latest issue of RISE, our educational newsletter which included toolboxes for teachers and conversation starters for parents, covering the representation of female friendship in modern media.
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The story behind the statue which caused online outrage and censorship
When The Female Lead posted about the newly unveiled Mother Vérité statue outside the Lindo Wing at St Mary’s Hospital...
A third of boys think women’s rights are unimportant, new report finds
A new report by Male Allies UK has revealed that a third of boys think women’s rights are unimportant and that many are turning to artificial intelligence for emotional support, friendship, and even …
“Running topless isn’t about exhibition - it’s about freedom”
By Louise Butcher, cancer survivor, breast cancer advocate and ‘Topless Runner’
Vicky McClure is done with one-dimensional women on screen
When it comes to TV and film, women are often boxed into extremely...
The Disrupt Your Feed role models that you NEED to follow
It’s no secret that what we see on our feeds shapes how we see ourselves. From filtered perfection to impossible standards, the digital world can distort reality and chip away at self-worth, especial…
Sisterhood, misunderstood 👯♀️
There has always been something magical about the energy shared between women. The support - plotting, laughing, debating, crying - is a powerful force that carries women through their lives. It’s th…
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